Life isn’t about finding yourself. It's about creating yourself.

petak, 10. veljače 2012.

Most famous love phrases

If I could be anything I would like to be your tears
so I could be born in your eyes and die in your lips'
Just look at the passion with which this phrase explains that true love knows no bounds.
When people laugh and ask me what I see in you.
I laugh and tell them everything you don't.


And this is what someone mad in love has to say about what he can see in his lover. Love is blind is what many say, but after reading this I feel love is blind in a much different way, that only lovers know.
You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
~ Sam Keenlove phrases
You can never talk someone out of love. They have all these excuses; they find perfection in imperfection, beauty in the ugliness and love in wrath.
Love doesn't make the world go 'round.
Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.
 ~ Franklin P. Jones
Mad in love sometimes make the lovers crazier and they start describing the world as if they have just found out about its beauty.
All love that has not friendship for its base is like a mansion built upon the sand.
~ Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Friendship achieves its real value and totality when it supports the love of two friends amongst all odds. There are always friends who can do anything to support the love their dear friend hails in his heart. It stands as a guardian angel waiting to sprinkle its miracle wand on the couples in love.
And finally when love has gone through one circle this is what happens,
In the end we always return to the people who were there from the b.e.g.i.n.n.i.n.g

Love is the cause of a shattered heart, you'll be broken forever

Anonymous said... ...Love is when someone takes your heart and shatters it, but you still love them with all the little pieces

What do you do when the only one that can make you stop crying, is the person who made you cry?

All these phrases only talk about all the dimensions in the game of love, which is reality to some and fancy to others. When seeing it from outside it might sound sarcastic or even insane, but once when cupid strikes his arrow straight into your heart you can never escape all these dimensions.

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone -- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone

Just like the spiders web the love tunes around your whole being never to let you free for a lifetime. Some even want to carry its wrath to other lifetimes to come.

When it comes to love words just don't fit in your mouth at the right moment. You always blabber or remain silent when the lady love strikes you. As it is right said,
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most: saying something and wishing you had not, or saying nothing, and wishing you had?

Never frown because you never know who might be falling in love with your smile

Many people follow their dreams to find their soul mates and finally end up meeting with the most obnoxious women of their lifetime. But once fallen always down is what love finally explains as many who had made love their lifetime commitment in the form of marriage. Many live happily ever after but many more burn their fingers and set out to find yet another love.

Finally the best phrase I liked the most in all that I went through is this little but very apt description of LOVE
L.o.v.e. is such a BIG word; for only four little letters

Women hate about men ....

The relationship between men and women has always been a love-hate type. This article will describe what a woman finds most annoying in her partner. Though this is a much debated topic, we know for sure that a woman never likes a man who is weak or shows too much of interest in her initially. Similarly there are many points that psychologists have tried to analyze. It would be very easy to put it down in a few simple points, but perhaps it is best to debate this topic by asking questions. How would you feel if you see your man with another woman what women hate about menenjoying a cup of coffee at the coffee shop around the street corner? Chances are, you would feel a sense of jealousy, even if the woman is just an office colleague who just wanted to feel a little relaxed. This is just an example and hundreds more can be cited. Any relationship can survive just on one sentence ’Trust me and I will never let you down’ If you really mean it, this can be the foundation of any statement.
Many Psychoanalysts often point out that women often contradict themselves while expressing what they desire and do not desire in men. Though women publicly admit that they like men who are strong, secretly they like a man on whom she can wield certain amount of power. Well for all the men reading this article, the Billy Joel song ’She is always a woman for me’ is how we would love to define her. No matter what, men will always enjoy the company of women. Let me now bring out certain points which women definitely find annoying in a man. Imagine your boyfriend calling you up every 15 minutes, when you are in the middle of a busy road. Regardless of how much you love your partner, this can become very irritating, as you would feel you are free to be on your own, due to the constant phone calls.
Now imagine you are on a first date and he starts talking about the amount of money that he has made in the stock markets or the new Ferrari that he has bought. I am sure more often than not a woman would not like to hear about these things on the first date. While do talk about what they do for a living on first dates, it is usually considered annoying and ruse for someone to brag about their earnings.
It is also likely (majority of the times) that a woman would not like a person who would show insensitivity towards her feelings. This is a mistake that many men make and women do not like this attitude from them. There are many other factors that women generally do not like in men such as arrogance, lies, submissive behavior, etc. Never ever show a woman that you have a weak character. This is one of the traits that women dislike in a man. It is a mistake that many men make by making a woman feel that he is ready to fall at her feet. Contrary to a man’s thinking that a woman would appreciate it, women get annoyed with men who are too submissive and ready to do anything for her. This does not mean that a woman does not want a sensitive man who is open about his feelings, but it does mean that a woman still wants a man to be his own person, think for himself and claim what he wants from a relationship.
A woman’s relationship with a man is very delicate and she looks for a strong shoulder to rest her head. A woman always likes a man who has a big heart and ready to share and care. A self-centered man is rarely loved by women and more often than not will crave for female company. You are setting yourself up for failure, if you show undue interest in other women when you are with a woman. This is a behavior that women dislike and will definitely put her off. Manipulative attitude is something that women dislike in a man. Hence, try to be as open in your behavior as possible and at the same time do not fall prey if she displays manipulative behavior. Keeping these points in mind, you can win over a woman. Remember that love blossoms slowly and you need to give your woman time and space if you really want to win her over. We have tried to explore few points that make a woman annoyed with a man. There may be many more and hence it is always advisable that you always be yourself when you are on your initial dates.

četvrtak, 9. veljače 2012.

How 5 minutes of meditation a day can save your life

Meditation of some form should become a regular part in your life. It combats many of the things that will lead you to an early grave.

Signs you need to meditate

If you are experiencing any of these things in your life then chances are you would benefit from a few minutes of meditation per day.
  • you get regular headaches;
  • you have trouble sleeping;
  • you have trouble eating;
  • you are eating too much;
  • you are fighting with family members more often;
  • you don’t want to go to work or other social events;
  • you are gaining or losing weight;
  • your sex drive is down;
  • you are always tired;
  • you are much quicker to get angry

This is not an exhaustive list but just a few things that you might be experiencing that might indicate you need to slow down and meditate.

Why these signs could be serious

The above listed signs could be dangerous to your health for many reasons. However, the main concern is the health problems that stress can create.
Stress has been scientifically proven to have an impact on a person’s wellbeing. Blood pressure is affected, weight gain or weight loss occurs which leads to other problems, and so on and so forth.
One of the best ways to stop these manifestations of stress and thus prevent all the symphony of health problems from occurring is to start meditating - even for only small amounts of time.

Proof meditation has amazing effects on the body

The Dalai Lama has been part of the Mind and Life conferences for many years. At these discussions many experts from different schools of thought (buddhism, science, philosophy, medicine, etc.) get together and talk about the profound impacts the mind is now known to have on the body.
However, the discussions took a different turn a few years ago when it was found that the buddhist yogis who have been meditating up in the mountains were able to do things that no one else can do. Two of the main examples were a monk who could comletely supress his physical response to a gun being fired next to his ear (he didn’t even flinch), and a group of yogis who can increase their core body temperature so high that they can dry wet sheets on their back!
Science began investigating these feats and found that the meditators brains functioned very differently to a normal person and the chemicals that create a feeling of happiness were much higher in their bodies.
Since these discoveries scientists have been working closely with the buddhists as it has become evident that they have a lot to teach. in regards to the power of the mind.

As I am always rambling on about, you are in control of your mind. People often fail to realize that the stress they are experiencing is taking place IN their mind so they have to USE their mind to reduce it. It is too difficult to try and fix everything that happens in your life such that you will never be stressed. A more practical solution is to learn to deal with the negative things when they happen. And that isn’t as hard as it sounds.

How to meditate to reduce stress

This is so easy you will wonder why you haven’t been doing it all your life.
First start by slowly turning your mind inwards so that instead of focussing on the external appearances of sight, smell, etc. you are looking at your thoughts. Become aware of them. How do they move? Where do they come from? Where do they go?
Do not try to change the thought. Do not judge “bad” thoughts and do not reward “good” thoughts. Just be aware of them. After some time you will be able to watch your thoughts quite easily without becoming distracted or frustrated.
Meditating in this way will allow you to be able to recognize thoughts when they first arise. This is a powerful tool in reducing stress as you realize that it is just a thought, not solid. By simply recognizing our thoughts we reduce their power and thus can reduce the effects they have on our life.
Conclusion
In anything you do during the day try to be aware of your thoughts. Let them come and go but be aware of them and their games. And, when you find a stressful thought just gently remind yourself it is just a thought that doesn’t have any power to effect you in any way at all. That’s the power of the mind!